Will people initially feel you are being Selfish?
Why YES, they will..
Does it matter? Why should it?
To view the opinions of those around you rather
than your own with such regard is confusing for me.
How can anyone other than me know what is best for me?
and if they are a parent,
shouldn't they have confidence in the way they raised their children?
If the value of others matter so much to you, you should understand,
you will always need to be lead,
hence why you are not a Leader..
Learning to value your wants, needs and desires and fulfilling them on your own
will teach you how to look for, express and experience those same desires with your mate..
When someone is afraid of you, it is your understanding of yourself
which is what they really fear.
But that shouldn't stop you.
Instead it should help you to strength this Love for yourself,
and be the best you, that you, can be!
Written by Nikki I Shiva