"Why do we make them?"
I love to live in the now, by doing so I am in the moment.
If I say to a friend "Lets promise to go out next week"
am I being fair in that moment to myself or to my friend?
I personally don't feel so..
People tend to refer to you as flaky if you do not follow
through with your promise even when you mean well.
Or you tend to feel guilty when something comes up
or you no longer want to keep your promise..
Funny thing is when you try to keep your promise (when you don't want to) something unfortunate usually happens, like your car will get stuck on your way to your friends house
or your dog hides making it impossible to leave...
The Sky is the limit on all of the @#$! that happens when you are not honoring the now but keeping a vow from a few days, weeks or months ago (Sometimes Years ago)
Be in the Now!
Stay true to the Moment!
and appreciate how you feel and honor that!
By doing this you will never feel you are disappointing anyone because you are always
being true to the Now!
Written by Nikki Shiva